Many  of us go on moving ahead in life irrespective of giving attention to our thoughts. We need food to survive so does our inner self. Here we are not talking about the gross food we consume but the food for the soul.

Merely, walking like zombies is not the purpose of life but vivaciously living every moment makes it worth count.In today’s world when we have started being so involved in the race of competitiveness that we actually forget to follow our inner self and we are lured into things that we actually don’t know whether we need them or not.

In our innocent childhood we learn and create things for our own happiness.We do what our heart wants us do.This is the reason that we learn and understand things faster.We are always satisfied with every small and big achievement that we make. We think,work and innovate and our dreams begin to escalate no matter how small they may be at the beginning. 

Then when we start growing and our world of imagination has just taken its flight to the incredible world of creativity we are told to create our interest in interests which are not even our own.  They are simply forced on us on account of sustaining ourselves with the world and many times depriving us of things which we actually want to follow no matter how good we are in them.This is the time when we start to live for others .  We are basically forged to move to a set of particular careers and goals on account of the success other people have acquired in those fields .We are given examples of such personalities and encouraged to follow the same set of guidelines.The  reason being is that we are made to understand that  things of significance are only important to follow and they can only be our area of interest.  Then, there comes a time when we  have adhered ourselves to all these materialistic values and lost what we actually are and a need of finding ourself arises .

Now many can think it in this way that what is wrong if someone is asked to  follow the path which a successful person chose in his life. There is nothing wrong or right  in this but every individual is born with a different and unique identity.Similar to this everyone also has a  set of unique traits that belong entirely to them. Some of these traits are inherent and some are generated of the events which every person  keeps on acquiring  on the basis of events they encounter in their life. Hence how can things that suited and also benefited one person can also be useful for the other person.

There are different outcomes when we stop following our heart and instead start doing things just to show our existence in the competitive world.

1.These outcomes that result in practical world are that we may be applying continuous efforts to achieve our goals and targets but still they might go in vain as actually they do not belong to us.We have hired them from someone else. All this results in a scenario in which we get discouraged and start doubting our own capabilities and potential to succed.

2.In other outcome some continuously train their mind and work so hard that they even make these hired goals seem like their own and are able to succeed and prosper in life and fulfill the perquisites which the world had placed before them.This can be achieved as our brain is designed to work in  such manner that  if proper efforts are applied it can make you perform any task. But one disadvantage that may occur in this scenario is  that even though we may become very successful but deep inside we are always lured towards our own interests and some how there is little disappointment that stays with us throughout our life.

3.The best outcome in life is achieved by following the road of our own interest. The reasons are that we are cited examples of great achievers and given their examples. But we  never understand what they achieved is because they did what they wanted to do. Another advantage involved in following our heart is that we don’t have to apply extra efforts as it comes natural to us. Even in situations of hardship we are able to enjoy with time and regrets remain miles away from us if we find us.

EXPLAINING WHAT TO DO IN LIFE WITH SIMPLE LOCK AND KEY THEORY

THIS IS SIMPLE YET VERY SIGNIFICANT IF YOU UNDERSTAND. ACCORDING TO ME THINGS WE WANT TO ACHIEVE IN OUR LIFE ARE THE LOCKS AND OUR POTENTIAL IS THE KEY TO OPEN THEM. SO EACH LOCK WILL HAVE ITS OWN KEY .IF YOU TRY OPENING THE LOCK WITH DIFFERENT KEY YOU WILL ONLY WASTE YOUR TIME AND EFFORTS. HENCE APPLY THE KEY TO THE LOCK FOR WHICH IT IS DESIGNED AND THIS WAY YOU WILL BE ABLE TO OPEN ALL THE LOCKS OF LIFE WHICH EARLIER SEEMED DIFFICULT TO YOU.

 HOW CAN I FIND MYSELF.. 

This is the question I bet each one of us had asked somewhere in time and left without a single hint of it. A beautiful statement can change everything forever.
Look into the mirror and say- this is me who holds a place in this vast universe. I have numbers of doors in front of me, numbers of opportunities before me, numbers of emotions to deal with and I, the most important person for myself is going to unlock them one by one with my zeal ,passion and determination.

Doing what you love is the first step towards meeting yourself .But this task is not that easy. Sitting idle is the favourite sport out there and people love it but we can’t actually do it for whole of our life and waste the precious gift called life. Doing, what actually creates us , makes us different from others.

Here is a small video that highlights all the important aspects of our life.

Finding yourself in life

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